people close yet so far away

why is it the ones we trust or hope in the most can also be the most harmfull when it comes to hurting our feelings. for instance i had to listen to a hour speech about how i should be more responsable with my money and how im waisting my life and time from my father. dont get me wrong if he wanted he could give good advice. but everytime he talks to me he makes me feel worthless. its not that i am not those things or doing those things its that the way he talks to me he makes me feel worse then i already do. but its not just that. the ones we love the most can also be the ones that hurt us the most. not sure if its just we trust them or love them or we just expect them to not do things like that. for instance if you love some one and they treat you like dirt or they just simply ignore you. even if it isnt our fault we belive it is at the time. is it just me or does it seem like everyone has a plan for our own lives but dosnt even think to consult us on them. but how do i handel these problims. i speak my mind and let them know i respect there advice but this is my life. it hurts to hear them say those things but we must remember that this is our lives. we are bound to make lots of mistakes but as long as we stay true to ourselves we can get through them

final thought: i have but one life to live. i also have only one soul to give. but as long as i trust in my own soul. i know i will be forever whole.